The closest feeling we can experience to love is fascination. When you are fascinated with someone, you are present, engaged, listening and connected. The only challenge is, most of us try to be fascinating, the object of attention, instead of being fascinated, giving someone else our attention. In this episode, Jen discusses the importance of being fascinated to give others the attention and connection they need and deserve.
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SHOWNOTES
Did you know that the closest feeling to falling in love is to be fascinated?
It Is!!
It’s being fascinated with someone
When you are fascinated, you’re in the moment
Fascination is a neurological state of intense focus, one that creates an irresistible feeling of engagement.
You know that feeling when you can tell someone is really listening to you
So what’s the difference to being Fascinating
Fascinating is to attract and hold the attention of; arouse the interest or curiosity of;
It’s Regularly used sarcastically to point out how irrelevant someone’s opinion was to the conversation at hand.
Can be accompanied by an eyebrow arch and a chin stroke.
So one of my mentors taught me the difference about ten years ago. A Canadian David TS Wood
Read the book The Day Maker
Today I let myself be fascinated with people particularly strangers and I give genuine compliments from my heart.
Why?? Why Not??
How do I do it?
Listen 2 ears one mouth.
Tell me more about….
It opened up my world
Healthy Life Hacks
Spend the next week consciously being fascinated in others and what they have to say.
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